Friday, February 27, 2009

half-century

Happy 50th Birthday to my wonderful dad!
I don't have the words to express how much my dad means to me. I really wish I could be with him today to celebrate this milestone of birthdays. But at the risk of being a bit cheesy and perhaps cliche, I am going to share 50 reasons why I love my dad (in no particular order).

1. He is a great example in so many ways.
2. His laugh--if my dad laughs out loud, than you know something is really funny.
3. He is a really hard worker.
4. He's an early riser and always gets a lot done in the morning.
5. Even though he complains about the various pets we've had through the years, deep down he really does care about them and does things like cleaning up their puke, going after them when they run away, and burying them in the backyard when they die.
6. He loves my mom.
7. He still cuddles with my mom on the couch and calls her his "girlfriend".
8. He's really handy and can fix things and build things.
9. He likes to work out and has even started doing yoga.
10. He taught me to ski.
11. He paid for many ski and other vacations.
12. He's always really supportive of me and respects my decisions.
13. The times I have seen him most mad were when one of us kids disrespected our mom in some way.
14. He's really funny.
15. He gave all of us kids nicknames and still calls us these or variations of them. I am "Bean". Lauren is "LoLo". Michael is "Bubba T. Washington." Hilary is "HilBil". And Nick is "Little Timmy."
16. He's really good at his job. I know this because people who I had no idea were his patients have told me how wonderful he is.
17. He doesn't have a bachelor's degree. (They let him into Med School after only three years of undergrad.)
18. He's ridiculously smart.
19. He always expects great things of us, but loves us just the same when we are only mediocre.
20. He is willing to take time off work to come out to NC to help us move in May. (And he already reserved the moving truck for us.)
21. He's goofy.
22. He still asks my opinion (if I'm around) on what tie to wear. He's been doing that since I was little.
23. I have his eyes and his fair skin.
24. He didn't have the easiest childhood, but he doesn't feel sorry for himself, and he overcame it to become an amazing and successful person.
25. He's VERY generous.
26. He's really fun to talk to when he's in the mood for chatting.
27. He's honest.
28. When I was very little, I asked him if Santa was real and he told me the truth.
29. He gladly accepts his role as "Wallet-Man".
30. From the time I was 12 until I left for college, he and I were in the ward choir together. I don't know that I've ever told him how much that meant to me.
31. He cries.
32. He skipped scout camp to come see Asher after he was born.
33. He LOVES being a grandpa and always asks how Asher is doing when I talk to him.
34. He is an excellent public speaker.
35. He joined the Church when he was 19 and went on a mission one year later.
36. He drives a Mini-Cooper.
37. He's adventurous.
38. He loves my husband.
39. He has a great smile.
40. He tells it like it is.
41. He believes in me.
42. He can play the guitar.
43. He loves books about historical figures and events.
44. He's loyal.
45. He has strong opinions.
46. He's very open, loving, and accepting of people.
47. He taught himself to be ambidextrous so that he could do surgeries more efficiently.
48. He's always looking for a better, faster way to get things done.
49. He's an excellent leader.
50. Pretty much, he's the best dad a girl could hope to have.

I am SO lucky! I love you, Dad! Happy Birthday!!!

Thursday, February 26, 2009

home

9 days
2000 miles
11 states
3 big cities
2 small towns
1 car towed
2 good samaritans
1 museum visited
3 best friends
2 grandparents
1 brother
1 aunt
2 uncles
4 cousins
1 warning (for allegedly running a red light--it was NOT red, but yellow)
1 drivers license misplaced
1 paper presented
Too many toll roads
2 boxes of hot tamales consumed
1 diet coke explosion
3 weary travelers so glad to be home again, and so grateful for all the fun had, friends and family visited, and sights seen.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

on the road

We'll be traveling for the next week. Today we drive to New York City! I'll post if I have a chance, but if not, know that there will be lots of photos to come of our adventure.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

baby joseph

My friend Annie gave birth to this little guy just two weeks ago. He is still in that wrinkly newborn stage that is so fun. He didn't want to stay asleep for me, but we did get some great photos. I'm going to take some more of him with his parents in a few weeks. It will be fun to see how much he changes in that time.

I love the forehead wrinkles!


He settled down for a few minutes.


And even gave me a sleepy smile.


I adore baby feet!


Joseph loves his thumb...


and his mama.





Monday, February 16, 2009

boo boo

This morning Asher was playing on the floor with a couple board books. He got a little fussy, so I picked him up and started nursing him. He was eating for a few minutes when I noticed there was blood my chest. I started looking for the source and discovered Asher had a bloody finger. Turns out he got a paper cut! It didn't seem to be bothering him much, but it was bleeding a lot so we bandaged him up. We had to use electrical tape to keep the band-aid on. It's kept him quite entertained.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

delish

We are pretty low key about Valentine's Day. We didn't plan anything special. All I asked for was to be able to sleep in this morning. So although I woke up to feed Asher, Jared took care of him after and I slept until 10:30! Then he made me this glorious brunch--waffles with homemade strawberry syrup with vanilla ice cream on top. Talk about decadent! Two true ways to this girls heart: sleep and food.


And I'm sure you can all guess what Jared wanted for Valentine's Day. Men are simple creatures after all.

Friday, February 13, 2009

love actually is all around

How could it not be with a face like this to look at everyday?



Happy Valentine's Day!

Thursday, February 12, 2009

mama and sick baby

My poor baby has been sick the past couple days. I hate seeing him like this. He's all snotty and can't breathe and he has a cough too. Just when we finally got him sleeping well again, he gets hit by this. No fun for any of us.

I took these pictures of the two of us because I was feeling bad that there are way fewer pictures of me and Asher than there are of Jared and Asher. You can totally tell he's sick, poor guy.




Tuesday, February 10, 2009

i heart north carolina

It has been so wonderfully warm the past few days. Sunday hit 70 degrees and we just had to get out and enjoy ourselves. It was blissful. Makes it hard to believe it's February and makes me want to stay in NC forever.

It was so delicious to lay out on a blanket in the sun. Asher had fun exploring the grass.





I just love his little hands!


And I adore these little feet!


And I can't get enough of this face.






Can't be outside without flying these days.



Then we took a walk, while Asher napped in the stroller.


And came home to see the moon rise.

Monday, February 9, 2009

wannabe


I just bought 4 domain names. I'm talking legit blankityblank.com domain names. One is for Jared for when he needs it someday. His name.com was already taken so I got his name.net. Just thinking of the future Dr. Jared who needs a place on the www with info about all his research and books and stuff.

The other three domain names are in reserve for my little photography business. Have you ever tried to name a business? It's hard. Especially when you have a long name like mine. My first and last name plus Photography is 10 syllables! 10! That is quite the mouthful. Just "Katrina Photography" is already taken. As is of course my very common last name. So then I was thinking I'd use my initials. But yeah, those are taken already too by some chick in New York.

So I've been batting around ideas that don't include my name and I came up with one I like and am nearly sold on. Don't think I'm quite ready to share yet though. I'm still feeling a little self-conscience about calling myself a photographer as it is. Don't get me wrong--- I LOVE taking photos! And this is something I've always wanted to do. And I know I have some talent. But I do still have SO much to learn.

The best way to learn is to DO. So that's what I've been doing, but with all the time it takes to edit, I couldn't keep taking photos for people for free. So I am now on my way to setting up my little business. I'm really excited. It's going to be a work in progress getting a website up and everything. I'm going to start with just a blog for the time being. I'll let you know when that much is ready.

Wish me luck! I already have several more shoots coming up.

Friday, February 6, 2009

baby asha

Today I had the privilege of taking photos of little Asha and her parents. Asha is 7 weeks old and is such a sweet, beautiful baby. We had a lot of fun. Thanks Zoe and Cary! Here is a little sneak peak.





And I even got a picture of one of the cats who in typical cat fashion pranced across the bed to see what was going on.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

eyes

For Danielle... a look at Asher's eyes.



They are still blue with a touch of goldish/brown around the pupil, which is actually very similar to my eyes. Maybe they'll stay blue after all. They haven't really changed much in the past month or two.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

as oprah says, "it's the hardest job on earth."

My friend Ariel sent me the link to this article after my last post. I just couldn't NOT post it for all of you to read too. All the parents out there will get a serious kick out of this and if any of you without children have ever wondered what moms do all day... well I couldn't have said it better myself. Read on.

From Washington Post:


TELL ME ABOUT IT ®

Wednesday, May 23, 2007; Page C10

Carolyn:

Best friend has child. Her: exhausted, busy, no time for self, no time for me, etc. Me (no kids): Wow. Sorry. What'd you do today? Her: Park, play group . . .

Okay. I've done Internet searches, I've talked to parents. I don't get it. What do stay-at-home moms do all day? Please no lists of library, grocery store, dry cleaners . . . I do all those things, too, and I don't do them EVERY DAY. I guess what I'm asking is: What is a typical day and why don't moms have time for a call or e-mail? I work and am away from home nine hours a day (plus a few late work events) and I manage to get it all done. I'm feeling like the kid is an excuse to relax and enjoy -- not a bad thing at all -- but if so, why won't my friend tell me the truth? Is this a peeing contest ("My life is so much harder than yours")? What's the deal? I've got friends with and without kids and all us child-free folks get the same story and have the same questions.

Tacoma, Wash.

Relax and enjoy. You're funny.

Or you're lying about having friends with kids.

Or you're taking them at their word that they actually have kids, because you haven't personally been in the same room with them.

Internet searches?

I keep wavering between giving you a straight answer and giving my forehead some keyboard. To claim you want to understand, while in the same breath implying that the only logical conclusions are that your mom-friends are either lying or competing with you, is disingenuous indeed.

So, since it's validation you seem to want, the real answer is what you get. In list form. When you have young kids, your typical day is: constant attention, from getting them out of bed, fed, clean, dressed; to keeping them out of harm's way; to answering their coos, cries, questions; to having two arms and carrying one kid, one set of car keys, and supplies for even the quickest trips, including the latest-to-be-declared-essential piece of molded plastic gear; to keeping them from unshelving books at the library; to enforcing rest times; to staying one step ahead of them lest they get too hungry, tired or bored, any one of which produces the kind of checkout-line screaming that gets the checkout line shaking its head.

It's needing 45 minutes to do what takes others 15.

It's constant vigilance, constant touch, constant use of your voice, constant relegation of your needs to the second tier.

It's constant scrutiny and second-guessing from family and friends, well-meaning and otherwise. It's resisting constant temptation to seek short-term relief at everyone's long-term expense.

It's doing all this while concurrently teaching virtually everything -- language, manners, safety, resourcefulness, discipline, curiosity, creativity. Empathy. Everything.

It's also a choice, yes. And a joy. But if you spent all day, every day, with this brand of joy, and then, when you got your first 10 minutes to yourself, wanted to be alone with your thoughts instead of calling a good friend, a good friend wouldn't judge you, complain about you to mutual friends, or marvel how much more productively she uses her time. Either make a sincere effort to understand or keep your snit to yourself.

wanted: housekeeper

Jared snapped this photo a couple weeks ago of Asher playing in the clothes by our bedroom closet.
Yeah, it still looks about the same!

I'm sitting here on the couch with the laptop looking at folded clean laundry that has been sitting on our floor for days. There is also a pile of clean laundry on the floor of the bedroom. This happens every time we do laundry. It gets to the folded stage and then I have the hardest time getting to the actually putting it away stage. Why do I hate that so much?! I don't really know. But I do. I think that if I had someone who would do this one household chore, I could handle the rest so much better. For the record, I have to say that my husband does do a lot of the actual putting clothes in the washer/dryer part of the laundry. But I do the sorting and folding and then hate putting the clothes away.

I realized something else about myself the other day too. Once I am in project mode, I can get a lot done. But it takes some major gearing up to get in project mode and if I get interrupted, my momentum is easily lost. As I'm sure you can figure out, with a baby that is constantly needing me, I get interrupted a lot and have a hard time getting back to my projects--aka cleaning! sigh.

Basically this was a long way to say that my house is a mess and I hate cleaning!

What I'm wondering is.... what is your arch nemesis of household chores? If you could hire someone to do one household chore for you, what would it be?

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

ready for spring!


Yesterday and Sunday we had unusually warm weather. We're talking 65 degrees... in February! So of course this afternoon we had to take advantage of it and take a walk. We explored the neighborhood a bit, and I tried out my new lens. And then Asher and I sat on the grass and chatted with the other mamas by the playground. Sadly, today will not be so warm.
Mother Nature can be such a tease.








For Katie, a photo of her little tree climber.


And for Gina, Here is your handsome blue-eyed boy!